48 Responses

  1. AprilR
    AprilR June 21, 2012 at 5:47 am |

    Thank you for spending time with us today. I so adore your stories.

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 6:38 am |

      Thank you for hosting me today, April. I'm so happy to be here and meet your readers. And I'm thrilled you enjoy my books.

  2. Debra Yates
    Debra Yates June 21, 2012 at 7:04 am |

    Walk like a lady, and yes I try.

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 7:22 am |

      I believe you do, Debra. You certainly behave like a lady online. :)

      1. Debra Yates
        Debra Yates June 21, 2012 at 8:28 am |

        Thanks Katherine, its hard to be a lady sometimes in this is a mans world. Seems after all this time you would think things would get better. :-(

        1. Katharine Ashe
          Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 8:51 am |

          People are slow to change, society even slower. And so we fight the good fight every day… :)

  3. Donna Steele
    Donna Steele June 21, 2012 at 7:06 am |

    Great interview – I admit, I love kick ass heroines, even when they're wearing a crinoline and corset so these are perfect for me. Just keep 'em coming!

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 7:25 am |

      Me too, Donna! And when I first saw the cover for HOW TO BE A PROPER LADY I loved it that she's the one doing the "bodice ripping". I hope you enjoy Viola. :)

      1. Donna Steele
        Donna Steele June 21, 2012 at 7:27 am |

        LOL!! Good point, she feels like my kinda heroine.

  4. Rebekah Y.
    Rebekah Y. June 21, 2012 at 7:34 am |

    As an only child for wayyyy too many years , I did not know how to share. However, now I am a smidge older, and super good at sharing, and saying please and thank you, and waiting my turn..even if I don't always enjoy having to wait my turn ( hee hee ).

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 8:54 am |

      LOL, Rebekah. I'm so happy for your- er- development. ;) I'm from a family of six children, so I always find myself incredibly anxious when something good like french fries or chocolate cake comes to the table. I'm always, always afraid I won't get any! I tell my only-child son this, but he really doesn't get it. Hopefully someday he'll learn what you have. :)

  5. Mary Doherty
    Mary Doherty June 21, 2012 at 7:40 am |

    I am from the South, so Yes ma'am and yes sir. Yes I still do this. It's a southern thing. I love all of your books, so I am sure I will love this one. It sounds like a really good book.

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 8:57 am |

      Thank you, Mary! I hope you enjoy Jin and Viola's story. I loved writing it.

      I'm a Yankee, but I learned "ma'am" and "sir" when I went to college down south, and I never lost it. Up north people look at me a little strangely when I speak to them that way (and without a southern accent), but secretly I think they like it. :)

  6. May
    May June 21, 2012 at 7:57 am |

    If you don't have anything to nice, don't say anything. I didn't really follow that when I was younger…. But now that I am older, I find that not saything unkind is actually the right thing to do. I feel better about it afterwards in the long run.

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 8:59 am |

      An excellent rule to live by, May. Kudos to you!

  7. Eliza Knight
    Eliza Knight June 21, 2012 at 8:02 am |

    Great interview and congrats on the release! Rules… hmm… I do remember my mother telling me often that I needed to sit properly–back straight, legs closed… I do tend to slump a lot still, and I try to sit up straight. As far as sitting with legs close, YES! lol

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 9:07 am |

      Hi, Eliza. Thanks so much!

      You know, I took a body language course with brilliant Mary Buckham, and the messages we send simply by the positioning of our legs and arms are really astounding. Apparently presenting one's lower torso (standing with legs braced open, or sitting with one ankle atop the other knee) means you're fully confident and unafraid of displaying your most vulnerable organs to others. In short, it means you're the Alpha. So I suppose we can guess what the "lady like" posture of knees together and hands in lap means! I'm afraid it's a posture my Viola hasn't quite mastered. :)

  8. Samantha H.
    Samantha H. June 21, 2012 at 8:03 am |

    I learned to say please and thank you and I still use them too. I also learned if you can't say anything nice then I shouldn't say anything at all. I still go by these things. I love you books and and thank you for the give away.

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 9:09 am |

      Very nice, Samantha. In fact, Viola has something to say about "please" and "thank you" in the book (she agrees with you!). And thanks for your kind words about my books.

  9. Cate S
    Cate S June 21, 2012 at 8:25 am |

    Find something nice to say to everyone. A compliment and a smile can always make someone's day.

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 9:10 am |

      Oh, I do agree with you, Cate. The smallest effort can make such a difference in another person's life. That's a notion, in fact, that inspires the heroine of my book coming out in September, HOW A LADY WEDS A ROGUE, no doubt because I believe it just as you. :)

  10. Earlene Gillespie
    Earlene Gillespie June 21, 2012 at 8:46 am |

    If you don't have any thing nice to say, then don't say anything.

    (from my mother)

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 9:11 am |

      Your mother was very wise, Earlene. Thanks for commenting. :)

  11. Gwen
    Gwen June 21, 2012 at 9:04 am |

    That a young lady should be seen and not heard. My husband swears I have social tourettes.

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 9:12 am |

      LOL, Gwen. Thanks for the giggle. Oh, wow, I grew up in a family of women who've never ascribed to that rule. Silly, silly rule… :)

  12. Diane Sallans
    Diane Sallans June 21, 2012 at 11:14 am |

    Elbows off the table, napkin on the lap, don't talk with your mouth full. I don't think much about it until you are with someone who doesn't know those rules & it's very off-putting.

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 3:51 pm |

      That's so true, Diane. And isn't it lovely to dine with people who do follow those rules? :)

  13. catslady
    catslady June 21, 2012 at 11:29 am |

    I haven't read you as yet (how did that happen!) but I want to. Treat those as you want to be treated – and, yep, I still do.

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 3:52 pm |

      The Golden Rule — still the best, isn't it catslady?

  14. Ally Broadfield
    Ally Broadfield June 21, 2012 at 11:59 am |

    My grandmother once told me that whenever you enter a social situation, you should stay quiet and listen for a while before opening your mouth. This might not fall under behavioral rules, but it has served me well.

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 3:54 pm |

      What excellent advice, Ally! My heroes are generally fabulous at this, and it is certainly to their advantages. :)

  15. Joan K. Maze
    Joan K. Maze June 21, 2012 at 12:35 pm |

    Treat others as you would like to be treated. Yes, I still do that, even though it is not always easy.

    Your book is intriguing. In fact, I'd like to read all your books. I love historicals.

    Joan

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 3:57 pm |

      Hi, Joan. It's not always easy to treat others as well as we'd like to be treated, is it? But it's such an excellent rule to live by. It's gotten easier as I've gotten older, I'll admit, perhaps because I've had more life experiences that help me imagine myself in the other person's shoes. :) I do hope you'll give my books a try, and let me know how you like them when you do!

  16. Lisa
    Lisa June 21, 2012 at 12:37 pm |

    Hi Katharine! :) Great to see you here and a great interview!

    I'm reading How To Be A Proper Lady right now and loving it!! :) <3 Jin and Viola!! And I absolutely can't wait for September when we get Wyn's story!!! A country miss eh? Not sure if that squares with who I think his heroine will be but we shall see ;)

    One of the very first rules I learned was that you sit quietly and politely at the dinner table while you eat your meal. You do not make noise and above all else, you do NOT leave the table to run around like a maniac and disrupt the meal. Very basic table manner, but unfortunately, I've been in restaurants where kids don't seem to have learned that rule yet :( That is a rule I still follow to this day. So thank you Mom and Dad, lol.

    1. Lisa
      Lisa June 21, 2012 at 12:40 pm |

      Forgot to add, no need to enter me in the giveaway! Already have a copy of the fab Captured By a Rogue Lord!

    2. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 4:07 pm |

      Hi, Lisa. I'm so happy you're enjoying Jin and Viola's book! I love it that you're dying to know who Wyn's heroine is. (And now I want to know if your guess has changed from before!) Soon it shall be revealed, I promise. :)

      Do I hear you about children and table behavior! It's just not safe to allow little ones to be running around a restaurant during dinner. My son struggles so hard when we're out with friends and the other kids jump up and run around the restaurant and he knows he mustn't. I'm especially proud of him on those occasions. :)

  17. Ora
    Ora June 21, 2012 at 12:40 pm |

    I remember my parents always telling me not talk and eat at the same time when I was small. Even though it isn't a rule for manners, I was told when I got older to never supress a kind thought.

    I can't wait for you book next week. I love that you have introduced some of the characters in previous books. It makes me want to reread the books.

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 4:12 pm |

      Ora, I love that: never suppress a kind thought. It's a perfect rule.

      I am absolutely loving writing these books, giving minor characters their own love stories and bringing back earlier heroes and heroines to play supporting roles in the new books. HOW TO BE A PROPER LADY really came about as a sequel of sorts to CAPTURED BY A ROGUE LORD, but the story fit so well with the Falcon Club that now it's all connected. I hope you enjoy it. :)

  18. Lexi
    Lexi June 21, 2012 at 2:12 pm |

    My great grandma always wanted us girls to have good posture. She even told us that we could walk around with a book on our heads to help train ourselves. We mostly laughed our way through it, but I have had many people comment on my good posture. So maybe Great Grandma knew a thing or two =)

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 4:13 pm |

      LOL, Lexi. It sounds like Great Grandma was very wise, indeed. You know I can't help thinking of Marcia Brady walking around with the book on her head, though I don't know what came of that in later episodes. :) (Are you of the Brady Bunch generation? For good or ill, it pops up in my memory quite often!)

  19. Robin D
    Robin D June 21, 2012 at 4:18 pm |

    A rule that was drilled into me was to always say, "thank you," and I still do it.

    1. Katharine Ashe
      Katharine Ashe June 21, 2012 at 4:25 pm |

      Wonderful rule, Robin. Gratitude is a way of looking at the world, isn't it?

  20. New An
    New An June 21, 2012 at 5:38 pm |

    Hi… Katharine

    be good to everyone, give a smile even we sad and angry

  21. lisa b
    lisa b June 21, 2012 at 6:51 pm |

    Well I'm from the south so Respect your elders, and lots of yes ma'ams and no ma'ams….love the books!!

  22. Marlene Breakfield
    Marlene Breakfield June 21, 2012 at 8:31 pm |

    I'm from the South, so was taught to say m'aam and sir. Yes, I still follow that rule.

  23. Aretha z
    Aretha z June 22, 2012 at 2:17 am |

    Hi Katharine , when I was a kid my parents taught me to hand things or to give things with right hand, I still follow this rule till today

  24. Kai W.
    Kai W. June 22, 2012 at 3:27 pm |

    I have a mentor who told me what I think about myself matter, what everybody think about you doesn't.

  25. bn100
    bn100 June 24, 2012 at 2:18 pm |

    Be polite to everywhere. I still follow it.

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